I disagree... unless its a blessed curse:). About 8 years ago I had an epiphany (a story for another time) and started writing poetry. Through this I discovered a lot about myself. But somewhere along the way I realized if it weren't for longing, I would have nothing to say or write about, so I revel in it.
I appreciate this perspective Scott and spent quite some time reflecting on this before writing about it. The best I could come up with are that there are longings that come from the heart, and those that come from the mind. The longing from the heart is unattached to the outcome (e.g., writing poetry for the sake of writing), while those from the mind usually sound different (doing things for the sake of certain outcomes). So maybe it is just a matter of choosing the right words but I agree with you.
Who are your favorite poets? Poetry has played a big part in my journey as well...I return to it on and off. It is a true gift.
I originally learned the craft from Mary “ what will you do with your one wild and precious life” Oliver, but I voraciously consume anything from Ada Limon and Louise Glück.
Who are your favorites ? I suspect the answer is in one of your posts, will look around.
Oh, Mary is the one who sparked my love for poetry as well. She is a wizard with words. I also enjoy Sufi poets. I have been meaning to read Louise Glueck :)
I really love this reflection, it hits home with me too. The teaching of the middle way does point in this direction of neutrality which creates freedom. There's the Zen koan " the great way is not difficult for one with no preference". Though, these teachings typically come after teachings on ethics. There's a foundation in ethics that underlies the middle way. Preferences are then necessarily constrained by purity of heart. You mentioned the importance of the heart, and I'm grateful that you did because it is core navigational compass for the path. Simultaneously, the mind can serve this unfolding of presence with perceptiveness and continual orientation towards a heart-based ethics. Where do ethics come in for you?
Really enjoyed reading this! I think we are manifesting all the time, but because we have turned this concept into an “event” with pressure to get it right, it can create tension, self-doubt, or disappointment when results don’t appear immediately.
Compelling framing on the heart path, this line especially:
"The choice is yours: You can manifest a beautiful life and spend the rest of your life longing for an even more beautiful one. Or you can transcend your mind, free yourself, and let your heart guide you into your destiny."
Beautiful Jules! Reminds me of a quote from the I Ching (Wilhelm/Baynes translation): "The heart thinks constantly. This cannot be changed, but the movements of the heart--that is, a man's thoughts--should restrict themselves to the immediate situation. All thinking that goes beyond this only makes the heart sore." It's so helpful to tease out these distinctions between head and heart.
Wow I love that quote, thank you for sharing it Kristin. It really made me stop and think. Thoughts as movements of the heart? I will have to chew on that a little 😇
"Longing is a curse "
I disagree... unless its a blessed curse:). About 8 years ago I had an epiphany (a story for another time) and started writing poetry. Through this I discovered a lot about myself. But somewhere along the way I realized if it weren't for longing, I would have nothing to say or write about, so I revel in it.
I appreciate this perspective Scott and spent quite some time reflecting on this before writing about it. The best I could come up with are that there are longings that come from the heart, and those that come from the mind. The longing from the heart is unattached to the outcome (e.g., writing poetry for the sake of writing), while those from the mind usually sound different (doing things for the sake of certain outcomes). So maybe it is just a matter of choosing the right words but I agree with you.
Who are your favorite poets? Poetry has played a big part in my journey as well...I return to it on and off. It is a true gift.
I originally learned the craft from Mary “ what will you do with your one wild and precious life” Oliver, but I voraciously consume anything from Ada Limon and Louise Glück.
Who are your favorites ? I suspect the answer is in one of your posts, will look around.
Oh, Mary is the one who sparked my love for poetry as well. She is a wizard with words. I also enjoy Sufi poets. I have been meaning to read Louise Glueck :)
I really love this reflection, it hits home with me too. The teaching of the middle way does point in this direction of neutrality which creates freedom. There's the Zen koan " the great way is not difficult for one with no preference". Though, these teachings typically come after teachings on ethics. There's a foundation in ethics that underlies the middle way. Preferences are then necessarily constrained by purity of heart. You mentioned the importance of the heart, and I'm grateful that you did because it is core navigational compass for the path. Simultaneously, the mind can serve this unfolding of presence with perceptiveness and continual orientation towards a heart-based ethics. Where do ethics come in for you?
Really enjoyed reading this! I think we are manifesting all the time, but because we have turned this concept into an “event” with pressure to get it right, it can create tension, self-doubt, or disappointment when results don’t appear immediately.
Absolutely! You know what they say about manifestation... we always do it, either consciously or unconsciously 🫠
Compelling framing on the heart path, this line especially:
"The choice is yours: You can manifest a beautiful life and spend the rest of your life longing for an even more beautiful one. Or you can transcend your mind, free yourself, and let your heart guide you into your destiny."
Thank you Maya 🙏
Beautiful Jules! Reminds me of a quote from the I Ching (Wilhelm/Baynes translation): "The heart thinks constantly. This cannot be changed, but the movements of the heart--that is, a man's thoughts--should restrict themselves to the immediate situation. All thinking that goes beyond this only makes the heart sore." It's so helpful to tease out these distinctions between head and heart.
Wow I love that quote, thank you for sharing it Kristin. It really made me stop and think. Thoughts as movements of the heart? I will have to chew on that a little 😇
Ah, the Peace vs. The Pull!
Is that a thing people say or is that a thing you have come up with 😇 either way, I love it!